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by Honeydrop9
Sun Dec 13, 2020 8:13 am
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Returning periods
Replies: 2
Views: 197

Re: Returning periods

Hello Viain,
My first period arrived 10.5 weeks after the op. It was a bit disconcerting but now everything is back to normal.. my body just needed that extra bit of time to process what had happened!
Take it steady, healing hugs, Cx
by Honeydrop9
Sun Dec 13, 2020 8:05 am
Forum: Main Board
Topic: A bit of a strange question how long did you want to have sex
Replies: 2
Views: 253

Re: A bit of a strange question how long did you want to have sex

Hi Beth We wanted to wait until I'd had my first period ...it didn't show up until 10.5 weeks after surgery so we ended up being 11 weeks post op to have sex again. I was terrified of doing myself a mischief by having sex too early and not being healed inside. My outside scars were healing nicely bu...
by Honeydrop9
Sun Nov 08, 2020 1:07 am
Forum: Main Board
Topic: 1 year anniversary
Replies: 3
Views: 247

Re: 1 year anniversary

You're definitely not alone my love... My operation was exactly a year ago too and it sucks. I've found my way to partially cope is by writing poems of how I feel. For some reason they come more easily to me and I can verbalise how I'm feeling more than if I were to try to tell someone outright. I'v...
by Honeydrop9
Tue Nov 03, 2020 4:38 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Period after surgery
Replies: 3
Views: 314

Re: Period after surgery

Mine didn't show til 10.5 weeks after my surgery. Quite disconcerting but my body just needed that time to recover and settle back to a normal rhythm. Xx
by Honeydrop9
Sat Oct 17, 2020 10:27 am
Forum: Main Board
Topic: You never forget
Replies: 2
Views: 316

Re: You never forget

Hi Wendy,
Your post has given me hope.. I'm coming up to the one year mark and keep having to remind myself that it's OK to still feel sad occasionally. Thankyou for sharing your experience with us all... Love and hugs, Cxx
by Honeydrop9
Wed Sep 30, 2020 6:00 am
Forum: Main Board
Topic: First period after ectopic surgery
Replies: 6
Views: 598

Re: First period after ectopic surgery

Hi Charlie, my first period after surgery didn't arrive until 10.5 weeks. It was quite disconcerting but now I'm pretty much back to how I was before the operation. Hope this helps to ease your mind a bit. 🙂 Cx
by Honeydrop9
Tue Sep 29, 2020 11:03 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Jealousy
Replies: 4
Views: 548

Re: Jealousy

Thankyou so much for your replies and kind words of solidarity... It has helped me to know I'm not the only one who thinks in that way... The thing is, I'm fine most days, but remembering back to this time last year makes me sad. I try not to dwell but in the next breath I'm Overthinking it all agai...
by Honeydrop9
Fri Sep 25, 2020 10:43 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Jealousy
Replies: 4
Views: 548

Jealousy

This time last year I was pregnant. I didn't know it yet, but little bean was there. Every pregnancy announcement recently has me feeling so bitter and jealous. Famous people, friends of friends, random people... I'm 37 and am coming to the realisation that perhaps motherhood isn't meant for me, tha...
by Honeydrop9
Fri Jun 19, 2020 6:31 am
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Period returning?
Replies: 5
Views: 1378

Re: Period returning?

Hello Archie86, I had surgery in November 2019 to remove my right tube. My body took ages to get up and running again. My first period wasn't until 10.5 weeks after the operation. I had been regular before the surgery, more often than not my period showed every four weeks to the day. The past few mo...
by Honeydrop9
Mon Apr 20, 2020 9:56 am
Forum: Main Board
Topic: When did u have period after ectopic pregnancy
Replies: 4
Views: 814

Re: When did u have period after ectopic pregnancy

Hi there, I had the same worries after my surgery. I bled for a week after the laparoscopy and my first period showed up 10.5 weeks after the operation. It was a bit disconcerting as my periods had more often than not been every four weeks. I'm now back on track it would seem although they're a bit ...
by Honeydrop9
Thu Mar 26, 2020 4:33 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Maybe this will help...
Replies: 3
Views: 1086

Re: Maybe this will help...

Thankyou so much for your kind words... Writing it down helped me process the swirling nonsensical thoughts that were constantly in my head. I shared it in the hope it might help others so I am so pleased you found it and that it might help you heal too. For the most part I'm OK now, but I definitel...
by Honeydrop9
Thu Mar 19, 2020 10:09 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: My eptopic pregnancy..
Replies: 3
Views: 1031

Re: My eptopic pregnancy..

Hi Emma, I'm 37 this year and am also feeling the clock ticking... My surgery was in November last year and we've just recently started trying again. I've read a few positive stories on here so there's definitely hope for us.. I think it just takes everyone different timescales to recover and to fal...
by Honeydrop9
Thu Feb 06, 2020 11:04 pm
Forum: Main Board
Topic: Maybe this will help...
Replies: 3
Views: 1086

Maybe this will help...

I wrote this today.... Thought it might be good to share it with you guys xxxx I'm a worrier by nature Worryings what I do The thoughts spin round inside my head I sometimes feel unglued The past few months have really sucked I've felt a little weird I've had very little upset, Not felt as I had fea...