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I had miscarriage before ectopic not after like u but im sure nurses or docs from ur hosp can give u advice re it.
Im sending u hugs n here if u need a chat.
Take it a day at a time and know u will be ok.
Take care
Princess Pink x x
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Iv been researching and looking at a few other people's story's and some people have had misscarriage after an ectopic I suppose it just one of them horrible things that happen in life
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I'm sorry to hear of your losses. We do hear from women who have experienced ectopics and miscarriages. Miscarriage is surprisingly common (much more common than an ectopic). Many women who have had ectopic and miscarriages or just one of either go on to have healthy babies so please don't assume that you won't be able to do so. It's important now to look after yourself and give yourself space to heal.
Much love
Beth - EPT Host xx
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Im doin ok kinda thanks. .. I recently thought I might be preg cause of all the strong symptoms I had but then I got my period jus 3 days late so was disappointed but now iv had 2 periods is more time to heal.
Iv been stressed for 6 days as my hands have been burning. I went docs and was told to take {ask your pharmacist to recommend medicine to help with the symptom] reg incase it allergic reaction but 3 days on it aint helping me. So I went bk to docs today n they think its mayb hormonal prob coz ny hormones r so high. So iv been given Zerobase cream for hands n if it doesn't clear up they will give me blood test nxt wed.
Its frustrating as its worse at night trying to sleep n now my feet are burning too.
Iv tried to focus lately on new jobs n had interview today which luckily I was still able to do n I think it went well. So il find out tomo and if I get it it will start September.
I hope u are getting the support u need. I can't imagine how ur coping with it all n I pray for u u will be ok.
Its so sad what has happened but im sure u can still carry babies. Doctors would tell u if u couldn't and advice u to not try again surely. So u should speak to professionals docs about that.
I hope u are taking it easy and that uv got help with ur lil todler.
I wish u a speedy recovery n give ur self time to heal. ..
Sending u positive vibes n hugs.
Princess pink x x
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Im here if u ever need to chat. ..
I hope things r improving for u.
Princess Pink x x
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Yea im ttc and feels like I have been forever. I waited for the two cycles that docs suggested before ttc and iv now had another 3 since then. I thought I was last month, i was only 2 days late but had strong symptoms n even threw up. But I realised I need try to stop stressing so much coz even counting the peak days and ttc then and it still hasn't worked yet so I want to try stop counting the days n relax more about it n leave it to fate. Even thou is hard to.
Do u get stressed counting ur peak days? I know u can't magic it to hu evet if u ttc at right time.
I wish u well with ttc and hope ur looking after urself
I went away with my bf last wknd to stay with his family n his niece was 10 days away from her due date. Her waters broke the morning after we arrived and she was induced 24 hrs later and we visited her n baby in hospital following morning and both held her baby.
I wasn't expecting her to have baby while we were there being 10 days early. But I guess it happened for a reason. It was a big deal for me being there with her and even holding her new born baby but im kinda glad I was able to be strong enough to and I know how much it meant to my bf to meet his niece baby as they are close.
I guess I hoped it would help me be stronger n give me pregnancy baby dust I guess.
Hopefully me n u will both get good healthy preg news before the yrs finished. I guess these things can only happen when they are meant to.
So don't give up hope or faith.
Princess Pink x x
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I know its easier said than done thou.. im trying to not count the dats but its hard not to wen u r use to doing so n want to get preg so much. I'm trying to do the same by noting wen my next period us due which is on 14th Aug n to not keep counting the days which is hard. And if im late again nxt month im guna try to not think I could be preg until I'm at least a few days late.. coz last two times I have been thinking I could be preg when im jus a day late which I know is normal it can happen n doesn't mean pregnancy.
It's hard having new born babies around u like u said with ur friends baby is how I felt seeing and holding my bf niece baby recently.
Its hard to not forget ur would of been due date. My first due date from my first miscarriage would of been May 12th.. and tthat day I got emotional at work n my bf didn't no the date so I didn't tell him as didnt wana upset him.
And my 2nd miscarriage/ectopic preg due date would of been October 28th so I like ur self am praying resl hard that on that day I will be already healthy preg. It's a full moon tonite where its meant to be a good time to make a wish they could come true so in case u don't read this msg tonite il make a wish for both of us to have a healthy preg very soon.
Take care n try stay positive.
Sending u positive vibes.
Princess Pink x x
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I hope u are ok...
Im ok thanks That's really good ur trying to not think about it... I've been trying to think about iit less... it's so hard thou as im always aware of the days im ovulating even thou I try not to think about it.
Its good ur drinking plenty of water n taking folic acid. .. I thought u didn't have to take folic acid until u actually know ur preg??
So that means u are due ur period this sat I think by wen u sent me ur last msg... I hope u don't get it n hr preg... fingers crossed for you
I thought mine was fue on last Friday but I think I got date wrong n I was due on sat... so I'm 2 days late now... Coz I usually have 26 day cycle and today us day 28. But I don't want to get. My hopes up coz iv had period type cramps in legs n belly on n off for gew days n sore boobs n I keep feeling like it's guna come. .. so il wait n see if it comes.
Me n my bf didn't even ttc wen I think I was ovulating... we ttc before I was due to ovulate and I think 5 days after I was due to ovulate. .. thats why even thou im late. .. I dont think I am preg.
Its anoying we didn't ttc wen I think I ovulate but I hurt my back n arm at work for past few weeks is ehy I think we didn't m I was on straight tablets.
But surely miracles happen do there's a small chance me bein 2 days late could mean im preg. Butt for now. Im kinda expecting my period to come tonight. Or tomo mayb.
I wish u well n hope soon ur telling me ur late n hot a positive preg test. Hood luck n well done for not thinking about it much... I wish I could do a be job if it... I am trying to. Its especially hard working with kids n babies n seeing preg mums... its hard to not think about it.
Take care n look after urself x x
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I don't no... im tempted to buy one today as im off work but I think il jus try n wait for period to come n if it doesn't come il try hold out til sat to do test wen im off work all wknd.
Obviously I don't want my period to come but I keep feeling like its coming n got tummy period type cramps now. Plus like I told you I don't think me n my bf ttc at right time so I keep thinking I can't b preg... even thou it's hard not to hope now n think what if buy miracle I am... I guess time will tell... I jus keep expecting it to come wen I go loo.
Do u... its horrible getting a neg preg test that is why im putting off doing one for now. How many days late will u leave it till u take a test?
I hope ur wrong n ur test will n positive
Yea it can b hard working with kids n especially wen I see the babies even thou I don't work with them.. I work with 2 n 3 yr olds who r still little. .. nut I had to work a day in babyroom last week was hard taking care of a new 10 month baby boy. .. hes cute but I kept thinking I could of had n want one of these.
No I haven't heard if the clear blue ovulation trial but I know pple use the kit coz my sis used it before she was preg with her baby girl. So u know exactly wen ur ovulating n ur peak days.
Im too scared to get it coz if I tell my partner my peak times I feel im preassuring him... even thou he wants a baby too.
Mayb il get an ovulation kit if I don't fall preg in nxt couple months jus so il no wen im most fertile even if I don't tell my partner. But for know im hoping it will just happen anyway.
I hope u r preg n dont need ur ovulation kit.
Its so stressful what we have to go through with trying to n wanting to get preg... and so much do after having lossed babies already.
I guess we have to try stay positive n hopeful too n even pray for a miracle healthy baby.
Im not religious or ought but il say a prayer for both of us to be healthy preg x x
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