Hey Nicola
Really they said that to u... u know what that does make sense about a connection between the brain n the body. Because wen I was told my baby had died at my scan... I was booked in for the d & c two days later but the following day which was the night before I was booked in for my d & c I woke up to agony n I started miscarring on my own n was loosing so much blood n passing blood clots and then went on for about 5 hrs... so wen I went to the hospital for my d & c at 7am the surgeon said coz I was miscarring naturally, that he may have to call of the d & c. But thank god he still did the opp to get rid of the remains, coz I was in agony n after I had the opp the agony n bleeding stopped.
Its mad what our brains can do.
Yeah its def better u had a scan before ur 12 wks scan.
I remember my scan at my miscarriage was the week before my 12 wks scan n I asked my work to let me cancel the holiday day I had booked coz I wanted to keep busy so I ciuu try not to think about it as mu as poss. . It is so sad as u just take for grantage ul get yr 12 wk scan wen u haven't been preg before.
It's good the epu are cancelling ur appointments.. coz u should not have to do it urself.
I think the hosp cancelled my appointments too but do u know what I remember in may 15 when my first baby would of been born that just after my would of been due date I had a voice mail from the hospital for a nurse ir midwife saying how she knows I was due my baby around then n she wanted to know if I was ok n if I had gone somewhere else to have my baby... she'd asked me to ring her bak. Which I never did but it threw me n I couldn't believe she hadn't checked her records about my miscarriage whiu was diagnosed at the same hospital.
I know it was obvs s mistake but it did upset me n even more so coz it was 2 months after I'd lost my second baby.
It's good u are guna look after urself n eat n exercise well n take vitamins.
Yea drinking in moderation is fine.
That is what I did n I left it a while before I had a drink coz I was scared of getting drunk n too emotional.
I had wanted to quit smoking as I did during preg but I was so stressed I started smoking again n then I quit the nite before I tested for my preg now as I jus had a feeling I was preg n I ea 5 days late n thrown up twice that week. So I haven't smoked since Jan 23rd the night before I tested positive.
Of course though have some drinks on ur birthday n try to relax n enjoy urself as much as u can.
My due date for my baby is October 1st
. So iv got 2 weeks & 4 days until im due.
Of course I can tell u how my labour etc goes... I just don't want to go into too much detail if it's going to upset u which is understandable. .. but il tell u anything u want to know. .. coz yes it will prepare u for when ul be going through labour urself
Yea its best to ne prepared about ur next periods... but ur right once u have that u know u are on ur way to ttc again naturally wen u are ready to.
I remember when I was ttc for 3rd time last year from May 15, and over xmas n my birthday which is at Xmas feeling low not being preg n little did I know that I would get my 3rd time lucky pregnancy which was dated back to December 26th... even thou I did find out til January 24th 16.
I can't wait til the day u have good news to share with me
I'm here to support bu through ur hard times n good news which will definitely happen for u. X x
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