Hi,
I underwent emergency salpingectomy 31/10/23 for ruptured ectopic. 14 days ago I had my first and quite painful period and over the past 7-10 days I have had bloating, pelvic pain, changes to vaginal discharge, pain on micturition and general vaginal discomfort. I treated for thrush with pessary and cream which has helped with the discharge but all my other symptoms remain. Is this all due to adhesions and healing process etc or should I get myself checked over? I haven’t got a fever but I’m generally fatigued. Is this all normal?
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Pain and bloating
Re: Pain and bloating
I have just been reading through the other posts. I had to return to work after 2 weeks and I am a full time nurse practitioner. I work very long hours and it’s a very physical job. I had to return because the company I work for didn’t give any protected time off under maternity so I had to use sick leave and then annual leave (or go unpaid). I wasn’t offered a phase return and I have just been expected to get on with things I guess. I wondering if whether I’m doing too much and that’s why I have these symptoms. Quite possible I suppose.
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Re: Pain and bloating
Dear Meagan,
I am so sorry to hear of your ectopic pregnancy loss,
It is still very early in your recovery journey and it is possible that you are doing to much too soon. If you are concerned about your symptoms however, I would advise seeking medical advice. although you mention that you do not have fevers, having unusual vaginal discharge, discomfort could be signs of infection, pain in micturition may also be a sign of a UTI.
Your body needs time to heal from your surgery which is in itself a gruelling task. You have also had to process the loss of your baby and been through an immense rollercoaster of emotions - all of this will take time to come to terms with.
You should take it very easily for about six weeks after surgery. Your body will be using its energies to heal internally. It is normal to feel physically and emotionally exhausted during this time and please do be kind to yourself. Recovery can take time and some days will be better than others, one day you maybe ok and the next you maybe in discomfort or more emotional. This is perfectly usual and the healing process will go back and forth in this way for however long you need. It is important to listen to your body's signals and pain and feeling tired are your body's signs to tell you to rest. We suggest keeping a healthy balanced diet, drinking lots of water and resting. Once your wounds have healed, very gentle exercise such as a short walk can help, but please do take this slowly.
If you need further time, please speak to your GP about a further fit note. Some people need to take up to six weeks off, this is completely normal. If you feel you cannot take any further time off, I would certainly speak to your employer about a phased return or other options such a more catch up slots during the day. Being a NP is physically and emotionally draining and you won't be doing the best you can for your patients if you are not looking after yourself. If work aren't supporting you, and you are in the UK and a member of the RCN, you could always contact them for advice too.
Above all, look after yourself and allow time to grieve and heal both physically and emotionally.
Sending much love,
Karen x
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I am so sorry to hear of your ectopic pregnancy loss,
It is still very early in your recovery journey and it is possible that you are doing to much too soon. If you are concerned about your symptoms however, I would advise seeking medical advice. although you mention that you do not have fevers, having unusual vaginal discharge, discomfort could be signs of infection, pain in micturition may also be a sign of a UTI.
Your body needs time to heal from your surgery which is in itself a gruelling task. You have also had to process the loss of your baby and been through an immense rollercoaster of emotions - all of this will take time to come to terms with.
You should take it very easily for about six weeks after surgery. Your body will be using its energies to heal internally. It is normal to feel physically and emotionally exhausted during this time and please do be kind to yourself. Recovery can take time and some days will be better than others, one day you maybe ok and the next you maybe in discomfort or more emotional. This is perfectly usual and the healing process will go back and forth in this way for however long you need. It is important to listen to your body's signals and pain and feeling tired are your body's signs to tell you to rest. We suggest keeping a healthy balanced diet, drinking lots of water and resting. Once your wounds have healed, very gentle exercise such as a short walk can help, but please do take this slowly.
If you need further time, please speak to your GP about a further fit note. Some people need to take up to six weeks off, this is completely normal. If you feel you cannot take any further time off, I would certainly speak to your employer about a phased return or other options such a more catch up slots during the day. Being a NP is physically and emotionally draining and you won't be doing the best you can for your patients if you are not looking after yourself. If work aren't supporting you, and you are in the UK and a member of the RCN, you could always contact them for advice too.
Above all, look after yourself and allow time to grieve and heal both physically and emotionally.
Sending much love,
Karen x
The Ectopic Pregnancy Trust
Registered Charity Number: 1071811
The EPT is awarded the PIF TICK as a Trusted Information Creator, the UK-wide quality mark for healthcare information
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Re: Pain and bloating
after surgery my wife had unbearable pain for 2 days doctor said that it could be a digestive trauma and adviced my wife to take medicines named [name removed per Trust policy] i searched for it on google and it told me that this medicine is used for digestive help should i go for it
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the admin removed the name so now im posting the link of the site you can go and check it [URL Removed per Trust policy]
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Dear Jose,
Per our Trust policy we do not allow links to other websites. We are also having lots of issues with Spam posts at the moment and I'm afraid of you continue to post a link, we will need to take additional steps. We try extremely hard to make these boards a safe space with the most up to date and medically advised information as well as support. As we do not have the resources to review linked websites, we ask that users do not link to external sites. I hope you understand and continue to use our forums in a safe manner.
Thank you,
Karen
The Ectopic Pregnancy Trust
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Per our Trust policy we do not allow links to other websites. We are also having lots of issues with Spam posts at the moment and I'm afraid of you continue to post a link, we will need to take additional steps. We try extremely hard to make these boards a safe space with the most up to date and medically advised information as well as support. As we do not have the resources to review linked websites, we ask that users do not link to external sites. I hope you understand and continue to use our forums in a safe manner.
Thank you,
Karen
The Ectopic Pregnancy Trust
Registered Charity Number: 1071811
The EPT is awarded the PIF TICK as a Trusted Information Creator, the UK-wide quality mark for healthcare information
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Detailed medical information can be found on our website. Please remember online medical information is NO SUBSTITUTE for expert medical advice from your own health care team
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