Don’t be so hard on yourself. It’s okay to feel guilty about feeling lucky. I count myself as one of the lucky ones, I had Methotrexate and am alive. I have both my ovaries and tubes, which a lot of people unfortunately don’t have any more. Therefore, I am lucky. Talk to friends, family and most importantly your partner – he/she is feeling as much hurt and worry as you are I’m sure. Above all remember it will all be alright, don’t put too much pressure on yourself to hold it all together.
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